Bd
Would yall let yall bd see the baby if he wasn’t doing nothing to help physically with the baby? Like don’t change her bath her make her bottles do her milestones with her basically the basic
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@Saida he’s been coming over mostly everyday for 5 months but haven’t did nothing to help out and I’m getting tired of the relationship atp but idk if the baby will be getting take care if I was to just let him get her without setting everything up or doing it before he get her
Could do a test run? Act as if you need to go get something and ask him to change baby’s diaper/ feed baby or yk the “caretaking” things?
@Sophia he’ll do it if I ask but im tired of asking him to do something like taking care of his child is a chore and he can only do it if I ask
I completely understand, trust your instinct!
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Is he actively trying to see your child? I would include this in the conditions of the visit. Tell him, it’s not all play. I’m not going to help you with everything. You have to figure it out like I did. I can tell you where things are and give you instructions, but the point of your visit will be to do with your baby what you do on a daily basis without help.