@Joanna I just don’t know who to ask for help. My friend’s husband works a lot & she doesn’t think she could handle her one & my two by herself, but maybe they would be able to tag team. I wish I could ask my MIL because she helped us last time, but I couldn’t ask her to take off work so spontaneously.
We paid someone to come and look after our small human with us there. So i could instruct and pack (i was recovering from spinal surgery when we packed and sold our hour and moved 24hr drive away to the north) Then when i needed a rest the lady we paid helped pack stuff as per my instructions and i read/ played with my small human then when i coukd do some packing i did and she watched our small human. I felt fine because i was there the entire time. Then we also packed while she slept at night etc.
We paid someone to come and look after our small human with us there. So i could instruct and pack (i was recovering from spinal surgery when we packed and sold our hour and moved 24hr drive away to the north) Then when i needed a rest the lady we paid helped pack stuff as per my instructions and i read/ played with my small human then when i coukd do some packing i did and she watched our small human. I felt fine because i was there the entire time. Then we also packed while she slept at night etc.
We just moved from one apartment to the other. I asked my friend to help me watch the kids while others helped us moved. It was so helpful knowing I can delegate and organize our stuff without worrying about the baby