Struggle with entertaining

I have an almost 2 year old, and I stress when it comes to entertaining my child for various reasons. The reason one is I have my moments when I love it,but I noticed I dislike it more. I find it annoying that one reason is cause there is not enough entertainment that will distract my child, I stress with if she would play or not. I get annoyed that she has a short attention span because it feels I have to constantly find ways to entertain her. Sometimes, I don't want to entertain her,but I feel bad when she looks confused about what to do. Sometimes, she finds ways to entertain herself. Sometimes I don't know what to do and I struggle weather to put a movie or not. I feel bad that I find it annoying,but I don't know what to do to enjoy it. Sorry if I wrote to much
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I don’t entertain (unless we’re in a line or doctor’s et cerera). It’s not my job to entertain, nor is it helpful for children to be entertained all day. Boredom is healthy, as well as being able to play and entertain themselves.

It's definitely good to mix independent play time in. As long as you're in a safe space with a variety of toys and books, she can probably entertain herself for a while. They don't know the difference between play and chores at this point so she can tag along and "help" with whatever else you want to do. Otherwise, I'd mix it up with short bursts of activities. Story time, climbing / tunnel time, shape sorting, dance parties, simple arts and crafts, sensory activities, building blocks, visits to a playground, exploring household items, etc. There are some Instagram accounts that give easy activity ideas. Chaos with Cara is a good one. There's also a sensory table group on FB.

Right now my daughter loves to independently play with her baby dolls, legos, blocks, lace and beads, and her Mickey Mouse figures and farm animals. All her toys are at her reach and she just gets whatever she wants to play with. More recently she has become better at independent play.

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