Baby’s first birthday
So it’s my baby’s first birthday soon but I don’t know what to do because I really don’t like my partners family😰 I invited them to be nice but the threatened to kill me when I first met them and they kinda scare me😰
My mum and sister want to come but they are crazy and dad wants to come…but my parents don’t get along, and my sister and dad don’t get along 😰 what was supposed to be a nice day is now a cluster fudge🥲
What do I do??😰
How do you deal when your family all hates each other? I wanted to get married but I don’t even know who I can invite 😰
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@Zara thank you 🤗
Celebrate with neighbours or friends. Then if family wants to celebrate, they can come on separate days. Except the ones who threatened to kill you, they would not be welcome anywhere close.
@𝔾𝕚𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕖 good idea, separate days😍 thank you 🙏
You will need to bake or buy many cakes, but that's fine and everyone gets a chance to celebrate without risking a fight.
@𝔾𝕚𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕖 definitely, everyone has different dietary requirements 🤗
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I’d say just have small intimate celebration with some good friends or colleagues. Also discuss this with your partner about his side of the family and mention that you don’t feel safe with them around, he should understand and support you! I wouldn’t even bother inviting your family if no one gets along it’ll just be chaos and you don’t wanna be on edge, especially as it’s your baby’s FIRST birthday, maybe later on you could go on separate outings, lunch so they’re included. Same for your wedding 💖