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Fgs, why don't you just split the day? I genuinely don't understand why you're making it a bigger deal than it needs to be!
I agree to just split the day. That way it’s fair.
If it's his set day and he won't budge and split it, then it's on you to make another day extra special with your son. I mean of course he wants to see his son on his birthday and of course you do, maybe you can agree to alternate years if splitting is not ok? But I don't think you should be putting it on your son to decide its not fair on him to put parents against each other like that, you guys are the adults so you guys decide
@Rebecca no need to be rude 🙄
You shouldn’t be asking your child these kind of questions, especially at such a young age. Be very careful as it sounds like you’re unknowingly stepping into parental alienation territory. Just split the day up between yourselves.
Split the day, that’s what coparenting is about. Doing the right thing and working together for your children’s betterment.
3 is too young for them to be making that decision. Can you not split the day? Or have mothers day another day
@Rebecca not sure if you are aware how rude this came across but this is supposed to be a supportive space even if you don’t agree with certain things.
Would yous not be willing to do something together for this day? (I’m not sure what your relationship is between yous) if not then I would agree with majority vote to split the day. Have the morning with your son and then celebrate Mother’s Day for the other part? 💗
@Ella it's not rude, as this isn't your 1st post about this and you were given good advice then! It seems to me that you want your way regardless, which isn't fair.
I've actually just listened to the video, and you give 3 options ,mummy, daddy or animals when he says animals you then say mummy and the animals Any kid is going to choose animals
Are you able to split it? He spends part of the day with his dad and part with you? X