She's moisture if all natural ingredients are important to you. African pride kids if you need detangling and stylers.
Castor oil is one of the closest to engine/car oils you can use. Its not as great as people think
As a cosmetologist, I always recommend fairytales for baby’s and kids, especially the curly q line (rosemary products for when they are around other kids to prevent lice, daily shamp/ cond for baby’s) Their products are paraben, sulfate, and phthalate free. https://fairytaleshaircare.com/blogs/blog/go-green-and-natural
You can also make your flaxseed gel for her. That's cheap and very moisturising.
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