How do I stop feeling like no one will want me now that I have a baby ?

I get nervous talking to guys now because I feel I will get judged. I do feel like i won’t even be able to spend time on nonsense since my priority is my baby. Idk why I feel wrong just even chatting w guys.
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Girl I’m in the same boat but trust a lot of guys honestly do not care 😂 even while pregnant I still get hit on, even if I tell em I got a kid they still talking about let’s cuddle and lay up. Some guys won’t care bc they’re not the dad and unless you’re not asking them to take care of the child they won’t have an issue. NOW if a man likes you he’ll like you no matter what and will even step up and take care of your child with no issues.i think it just depends on the guy and his maturity. Bc a kid shouldn’t stop anything at all and also if you’re single and not with oror messing around with the baby daddy. Just make sure to always take care of your self and your needs. And always do things to make you feel pretty!!

I think you make it clear from the beginning that way the guy knows what your priorities are and if he’s okay with it he will accept it. Just remember some of these men want you even with a whole ass husband haha all jokes aside. You will find a man that will want you and want your baby too.

Plus having a kid changes your mindset. Ofc you don’t want any man around your child anddating or talking to guys will be different. I can’t see myself being in a kiddy relationship or having my time wasted with anyone. Any red flags I see you’re gone!

@Rebecca aww thanks yeah I definitely want to pamper myself more & yeah I guess the right ones won’t care

The right guy will accept you AND your babies! If he's gonna be interested because of your kids, good! You want a man who will treat them as his own 🥰

@Rebecca yeah definitely cause our time is limited now so why waste it on games

@Rebecca this!! i have no more time for boys, man child’s. i need me a MANNNN.

you will find a lot of men out there who will be super accepting of you having a baby, and as they should! it’s your life, your choices. if you want something more serious with them, they should be happy to be as a little family and that’s beautiful, but if you want to casually date around; go on a few dates, get your spark back in the romance world, that’s fine too! do what feels best for you and makes YOU feel best. there’s no judgement, and if a person does judge you it’s because they’re a BOY not a man. 🤗❤️

Boys won't accept....Men will...there's a difference....you're priorities have changed and you will pick up on the non sense.....once you fully heal...there will be alot of things you will no longer tolerate 👌🏾💯

if they can’t accept your child they’re not the one.

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