My fiends little girl has this issue and would only poo in a pull up at night even at 5 - they managed to get refered as they basically had to clear her fully out and start a fresh . She’s ok now . I’m sure you’ll nip it in the bud well before then but I think it’s quite common xx
There’s a good chance she’s got some impaction so be prepared for a very big poo coming. It’s happened to my son twice we had to hold him over the toilet squatting him and my husband had to physically help move the impaction. Give two a day even after she had a poo and then after a couple weeks take it down a sachet. I give my son one every day and until he starts eating a proper mixed diet (very fussy eater) I’m guna keep him on them. He’s had poo shyness since he was 1! Only ever does a poo at home which the doctor found surprising given his young age.
Watermelon my son was exactly the same I bought the sliced watermelon from shop he ate the whole pack in one go and about an hour later he shat everywhere and a lot so if you wanna try watermelon make sure she has a nappy on 😭😭