Need advice asap!!!! Because this teacher needs to be taught this isn’t ok.

Hi everyone I’m sorry to post like this but I’m mad af. My stepson was in school Tuesday ( he’s 7) he asked his art teacher 4 times that he really needed to go to the bathroom and she told him no. This went on for 30 minutes until he went to stand up and peed himself. It took until end of day for his homeroom teacher to be the first to notice his pants were wet and they asked him what happened and he explained it. They did not contact his nor my husband about this. They changed his clothes and his mom didn’t get any call or txt. She didnt even find out until she picked him up from school and seen he was in different clothes. The school is brushing this off like it’s nothing but it’s a real problem. Not to mention we have been having problems at home with him having accidents so I think this is the art teacher a power trip. Please help!!!

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If he wasn’t having accidents before and is having accidents now I’d take him to his pediatric doctor for a checkup, not saying that anything is happening to your baby but just to be sure, then I’d request a meeting with the principal and his teacher and let it be known that if this is not addressed and fixed you’ll go over their heads and go to the school board. Don’t back down, you are your baby’s best advocate

@Tatianna his mom talked to the principal and they brushed her off and said it was his fault for having an accident

@Tatianna we noticed he started having poop stains in his underwear around the start of school year.

I’d definitely get ahold of the school board because it’s not his fault if the teacher won’t allow him to go the bathroom, at the age of 7, well any age really but especially at 7 and younger you can’t be expected to hold your urine

Yeah this is a big thing in schools they consider bathroom time play time and that you should be expected to hold it , in middle school I would get constant utis because I got told no, or I got timed or even they started making us get only 2 bathroom passes a semester and if we asked more than 2 times in one class and used are passes that was it. Its very sad my mom would argue with the school constantly bringing notes from my doctor that I kept getting utis . Even in highschool same rules applied I just was told by my mom to get up and walk out and take the referral. Its really sad they do that I would bring it up to the school board. I even got my period one time and my teacher who was a women told me “you can wait till class ends”

Girl I would yell at that teacher

I told my son that if he asks for the bathroom and they don’t let him, he has my permission to go. You ain’t about to give me son a UTI or an accident by not letting him go. Definitely would be writing an email to school board with principal and teacher copied having the principal confirm their words of blaming the child.

That's unacceptable. Tell him to raise his hand and say I'm going to the bathroom. You can call my mom if you need to. Have a doctor write a note. I had a uti once that led to a kidney infection and was hospitalized for 5 days.

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