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I am so sorry that is happening. I know how you feel. I had postpartum anxiety and depression with my first and my husband and I hardly had sex because I was just not feeling it so much. You want to be into it but it’s hard to be. I didn’t get my drive back so much and got pregnant with my second. I’m now 4.5 months postpartum and not feeling the postpartum anxiety and depression this time. However I am still having a low sec drive. Apparently it is normal to feel that way. Have you spoken with him about how you feel and that he is hurting your feelings?
As the higher drive indovidual in the relationship let me tell you that your feelings are valid. What he's doing is weaponizing sex to hurt/harm your relationship. If he has needs he has a hand. There's never any reason to make hurtful comments to your partner to coerce them into sex. Coercion is not consent it's sexual assault.
Grrr! Why do men do this? Of course it's not gonna be the same. When you have a baby you end up Either you got a belly that smiles at you or spaghetti f***y Your boobs are like bags of marbles and you're tired and they're attached like a leech trying to get their way 😕👎 i would say "you've got two hands - pick one!" Sounds like a right n**head
Dump his ass boo, you deserve sm better
Doesn't sound like a good partner to me