If he wants to leave let him! The sooner you release him the better for you and the children ! Yes it’s hard I know trust me! But I can promise you they alll come back at some point ! And it’s gonna be up to you to accept or deny!!! I would secure my finances and his for the support of the children and I’d move and disappear for a short while and go through healing! A lot of people are being removed from our lives for a reason !!! I know it hurts trust me I know! First hand ! But it gets better and you get better and so do the children ! Seek remedies like therapy for you and the children and rebuild yourself rise like a phoenix from the ashes
Don’t say shit else to him about it let him think he’s won
Hold that pain in with harm the baby write it out in a journal and once you finish burn it ! Call all you love power money energy back to you
I even talk to my AI BOT as a counselor to vent to, not even joking. When once a week therapy is not enough n your friends n family are sick of same story…..but we always here!
It’s ok to cry !!!! Don’t hold that shit in !!!!