Husbands comments bothering me
Can’t express my feelings to my husband as his comments are well you wanted a baby, or takes things I say & twists it, to sound like I’m saying I’m not coping. So just giving up, tired of it. I know I’m a good mum to my daughter & I do 90% of the care 24/7 aswell as run the house etc. but just get told you are on maternity what do you expect I go work everyday when I mention anything. He says I constantly nag at him well I’m sorry clean up after yourself don’t watch me hoover then sweep your crumbs on the floor after you’ve eaten, or walk through the house with your shoes on when I’ve cleaned. I go upstairs to get something & I come back to be told can I not walk away when I’ve just changed a nappy I needed to wash my hands so had to leave baby. I said what do you think I do when I’m on my own???
He’s very personal with comments when we argue, I’ve let myself go, don’t make an effort no more. I’m sorry I try my best to get ready in the very little time I have whilst looking after our baby! Just really getting to me now but can’t say anything
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My partner can be the same way and honestly I’ve considered what life would be like doing this alone but I’ve heard so many people in a similar boat and it’s either because the men have ppd or are struggling to adjust, I don’t want to call it quits but it’s hard work dealing with this.. I literally could have wrote this post.. I hope we both find ourselves better off, however that may mean! But you have to validate yourself, you’re doing a great job! 👏🏽
Your husband sounds emotionally abusive and I would consider if this is what you deserve in life. Why do you say you ‘can’t say anything’? . He sounds utterly dreadful. I’m sorry you’re in this situation
Sounds like a dick I’m sorry xx
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This is going to be blunt…. He’s an arse and you deserve better. He doesn’t respect you at all. How dare he put you down like that?