No effort from partner for Mother’s Day

My husband made absolutely no effort for my first Mother’s Day and I just don’t know how to feel.. he wished me happy Mother’s Day like 11ish when we were having brunch that I made and that was about it.. he then went to the gym..in the end I joined my friends family in the park so I wasn’t stuck at home bored with my LG.. when I got back he was just watching footy and chatting away with me like it wasn’t a problem and that’s it nothing else.. we’ve been married for 3yrs and he’s been like this with any type of celebration and he knows it pisses me off especially as he was never like this before marriage..we always end up fighting cause he makes no effort and says it’s cause he doesn’t care about stuff like and he wants to do things in his own time..but he never really does that much on the other days so it’s jsut an excuse really..but I thought he would atleast try for my first Mother’s Day cause it hasn’t been easy from induction to 15hrs labour to no sleep for months and months!!This time I couldn’t be bothered to get angry about it..just wanted to enjoy the day with my LG really but I feel very gutted that I had such a rubbish first Mother’s Day. I guess cause I never pictured my first one being this lame. Even a card would have been enough to put a smile on my face..I never really want anything big anyway just would have been happy with the effort and thought if he tried something/anything..he said he forgot cause he’s not on social media and so he hasn’t really seen it any where but I don’t buy it..just feel very unappreciated really! Am I putting too much thought and pressure into it I know it’s just a day but he’s made me feel like he actually doesn’t think I do a good job at motherhood :(