Lol maybe im overreacting

I cook,clean,care for the kids, work part time,make my mans plate and serve it to him every night along with his drink, wash work clothes last minute when he doesn’t tell me he doesn’t have any uniforms last minute,keep the house clean and so much more.I just don’t feel appreciated, the most I get us a half ass back rub at night 10 minutes before him falling asleep.I get maybe an hour of his time at night before he is complaining about needing to go to sleep.We don’t have date night hardly. I asked this man to pour my wine for me while I was in the shower……I came out and he had his own beer he went to go grab and didn’t think to pour my glass of wine.I was like gosh thanks for my cup.His excuse that it would be watered down by now….Wine….would be watered down in 10 minutes.He laughed it off and dozed off for the night.I hate it here 🥹

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I guess im just frustrated because he doesn’t have to do anything around this house. And I ask for one thing and its always an excuse.After making food 3 times today, washing clothes and taking care of 2 kids from sun up to sundown everyday and everything else I do and you cam even pour my gd drink

It sounds like you’re not feeling valued. Tell him. Use feeling words without accusation. Give him a chance to understand. Then give him time to correct the behavior. If he does not correct his behavior, make a list of everything you have to do and everything you don’t have to do. You have to take care of your kids, you don’t have to wash his clothes. Do the things that you have to do to make you and the kids lives easier. Stop doing the things that you don’t. You deserve to be happy in your life, but you have to make that happen. It would be nice if he was more considerate of you but your happiness is not his responsibility. His is not yours either.

I got tired of feeling like a single mom while married. Sometimes it’s better to be on your own. The little things build up. Talk it over with your husband, maybe look into couples counseling. At the end of the day, do what’s best for you.

Thank you ladies!

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