Just need to vent and cry!

I am just so miserable and feel like I can’t make it the rest of the way. I am 38 weeks and 4 days so I know I’m close. But I have only been getting like 3-4 hours of sleep because even laying down my back is in so much pain. I cramp all day and night! I have reflux. Then because I’m not sleeping I’m beyond tired so I’m grumpy with my toddler and feel like I need to be on bedrest! But I obviously have to take care of him. But I’m in so much pain I can’t do anything but sit around so I just feel so bad for him. I need this baby out but my OB has said multiple times he doesn’t think this baby is going to come before my due date. I even tried to schedule an induction at 39 weeks. But because everyone has spring babies there is no spot for elective inductions until my due date anyways 🤦🏼‍♀️ so I don’t have a choice but to tough it out. I just hate everything right now and need my body back ☹️
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@Nyjayah he is 3 and just the sweetest little guy so I feel so guilty. He is just non stop mama want to play with him? I’m in Colorado ☹️ what types of things have you been doing for your toddler to try and keep them happy while you feel so horrible?

My induction is scheduled 2 days after my due date, but hoping he comes any day now. Do you have a wedge pillow? It has made such a huge difference with my reflux at night. I also started taking liquid Gaviscon instead of Tums or pills because it was recommended by a guy whose reflux is so bad he's having surgery for a second time (checked w/ my OB for approval first of course). Just make sure not to drink anything after you take it, as the liquid basically creates a barrier over the stomach acid and drinking other liquid breaks down that barrier. Heat is the main thing helping my hip pain. It's flared up so bad a few times in recent weeks that I could barely walk and changing position from sitting or laying down was super painful. I have a heating pad, also got a set of the disposal wearable wrap type that helped a lot. Also Biofreeze when it's more sore than painful.

I’m so sorry mama, being pregnant with a toddler is so so hard when not sleeping and uncomfortable on top of it. Can you try seeing a Webster certified chiropractor? They can hopefully help get you feeling more comfortable, it has been very helpful for me this pregnancy. Hang in there you’re so close 🫶🏻🫶🏻

I’m not gonna lie these last few days I’ve stuck my toddler with his iPad! I know it’s frowned upon all the screen time but I know he’s not getting into anything he shouldn’t because I’ll just sit here and fall asleep. I push myself to take him out when it’s nice out for at least an hour trying to get some toddler energy out but he’s been very good I have good and bad days just trying to make it to the next. We get our toddler books out too and will read so many and some over and over but if I feel sleepy I don’t wanna be mean with him so he gets some screen time while I take a quick 20 min nap but he’s always right next to me

@Ashley Don't feel bad, screentime is a lifesaver with pregnancy and a toddler. It's not forever, do what you need to do to get through these rough days. I tried to make sure my oldest watched quality kid shows, not like YouTube junk, and she got lots of extra snuggles while I rested. I made sure she had a safe contained space to play in, and we got through it.

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