How old is she
No advice but we are going through the same! Completely refuses to use the potty! We haven't moved but had another baby in October X
Have you tried getting a toilet seat? My daughter has literally just been toilet trained over the past month and she also refused a potty but would go on the actual toilet. She said she wanted to be like us. I then gave her a snack shelf in the bathroom so once she’d used the toilet and washed her hands she could pick whatever she wants. It was a long process to get her to stick to but it finally clicked! X
I would slowly introduce language like mummy’s going to the toilet, oh I just had a wee, show so much excitement and fun. She may take to toilet seat instead of a potty. Make it fun as a family. That’s what we did. Was very open of when we needed to go and what we did etc