Falling apart help😭

Whatever you do, do not marry him.

Do you have parents or anyone you can stay with until you come up with another plan? I can’t imagine raising a child with someone like that and can’t see how they would be a good father.

@Annie I don’t have anyone. My mom’s husband has problems so I don’t trust him around my child and dad is gone. Grandparents aren’t an option because they have a lot of inside dogs that can aggressive at time so not safe for a toddler that likes to run around. That all the family I really have.

I’m sorry. The only other option I could think of is to find a women’s shelter that sometimes temporarily houses people in situations like yours. Each town/city usually has a non profit organization like this. Maybe yours does?

It is time to plan your exit.. otherwise it is just going to get worse. You do not deserve thos and this man will traet you like shit because he thinks he can control you. Who can feed you can starve you. Check state resources for housing, section 8, women shelters, daycare assistance. I assume you are young? 20s? Please leave. You have all your life ahead of you to stick to an abusive man. Because yes, my dear, that is emotional abuse. Prove him wrong. You can do this.

As soon as you leave file for child support.