You are ment to be a team not in competition with each other, the world is hard enough. You need support. I would remind him of this. Tell him, reaction to your return to work has hurt your feelings and then See how he responds. X
@Helen I don't know I just love him I guess, and I'm so used to him and my life I don't want to leave because I'm worried I'll be so lonely and depressed
Sounds like an arsehole and someone I wouldn't want my kids growing up around
Why are you with him? Would u want this sort of relationship for ur daughter when she’s older? She is going to grow up thinking it’s normal and ok for this sort of comments, for a lack of support and allow her future partners to treat her this way.