How should I plan my get away ?

I just came across screenshots of conversations of my husband of 10 years talking to other woman and at this point I’m tired of it and it ain’t the first time. We share a 5 year and thank God it’s only one. I don’t even want to have a conversation I just want to pack me and my son bags and just leave him a note or better yet a yellow envelope of printed conversations of him talking to other woman. Sad part this is I am a stay at home ( temporarily) I had to quit my job because he got a job traveling and no family to watch him while we both work and I don’t have no money !!!!! Smh I feel dumb 10 years I’ve wasted my life with this man. Anyways what’s the best way for me to escape, I don’t want to confront him with this because idk how he is going to react and I want to make it out this apartment alive !

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Exactly how you said… pack yourself and your son’s belongings & leave. I wouldn’t waste my time with a note, but the printouts of screenshots would be enough explanation. Leave while he is away at work. Also, let family know or someone close to you. If you’re concerned about your safety always best someone knows in the case of anything happening or his reaction being negative.

I would start saving his money. Get cashback whenever you make purchases at store it won’t show in the bank account that you got money. If you have a separate bank account I would also download acorns to pull money out of the shared bank account and then you transfer to yours. Act normal while doing your research. Thats what I would do if I was in your situation ❤️ be strong girl

Take as much money as you can before packing and executing your plan. You sound like a strong one. You got this Kisha.

Thanks ladies

Please consult a family attorney before packing and leaving. Alot of attorneys will encourage you to keep the status quo for a while so they can help you get affairs in order. That way when you file, you have all the evidence and the upper hand. Your movements from now on should be slow, deliberate and strategic unless it is a threatening or unsafe situation for you and your child. Play chess not checkers.

I agree with consulting a lawyer first! I wanted to add a resource if you are in the states this website might help findhelp.org

Thank you I will definitely be making some calls today

Y’all it gets worst I got into this man’s google drive

Screenshot and take pictures of everything. Do not let him know that you know. Take everything to an attorney and let them build your case. Try your best to keep it cute and cool around him.

Girl I am about to burst 😤😡

I can’t afford an attorney, I’m not even working rn. That’s sad part about this how let this man talk into quitting my job

Have you looked into any local legal aid organizations?

I just filled out an application like 10 mins ago and they said they will get back to me in 5 days

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