You don't find it highly suspect that he suddenly wants to go out, at midnight, for no apparent reason? If my partner pulled that I'd tell him not to bother coming back
@Amber especially with a new baby.
@Amber I did find it odd because he wanted to go alone and when he met some of his old buddies they would dance and he'd just sit and watch.. a d today he still isnt back from the memorial its almost 11pm and im just like eh
Wow I'm sorry I only just saw this, what time did he get home? Do you have proof he went to a memorial? There's not a single good reason for him to be doing that, especially with a new baby
@Amber sometime after midnight i couldn't wait any longer I was so knackered
Oh bless you love I'm so sorry, this is the last thing you need right now. I'm in the process of breaking up with my Nov baby's dad as we speak, if you want to message me for anything x
@Amber aw thank you 😊 🙏
You just have to be honest. It's tricky when it's a memorial but as a grown adult with a 4 month old it's really inconsiderate to just randomly decide to go on a night out and not even have the decency to let you know when he'd be back, and the audacity to wake you up when you've got a small baby is not okay. Don't go off on one but make clear you aren't happy and feeling like an after thought!