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My partner out of nowhere wanted to go out clubbing at midnight last night..I said well obviously I cant go as we have a 4 month old but I said to him 'you can' all i asked was the update me whenever.. I would text him around 2am to ask when he was coming back no response..and where no response so I went to sleep..5am he came back he woke me up but I just thought im not going to say anything as I was so tired..now in the morning as I woke around 7am..fast forward he tells me around 12pm today that one of his friends is having a memorial gathering as his mom has passed so he is going there..and will be back around early evening..telling me on such short notice..bear in mind I have told him about how I feel about short notice in the past..he apologises but does it again..its just he goes off last night leaving me with our son which is fine but now another short notice thing I kinda feel pissed and I dont know how to tell him about my feelings..
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You just have to be honest. It's tricky when it's a memorial but as a grown adult with a 4 month old it's really inconsiderate to just randomly decide to go on a night out and not even have the decency to let you know when he'd be back, and the audacity to wake you up when you've got a small baby is not okay. Don't go off on one but make clear you aren't happy and feeling like an after thought!

You don't find it highly suspect that he suddenly wants to go out, at midnight, for no apparent reason? If my partner pulled that I'd tell him not to bother coming back

@Amber especially with a new baby.

@Amber I did find it odd because he wanted to go alone and when he met some of his old buddies they would dance and he'd just sit and watch.. a d today he still isnt back from the memorial its almost 11pm and im just like eh

Wow I'm sorry I only just saw this, what time did he get home? Do you have proof he went to a memorial? There's not a single good reason for him to be doing that, especially with a new baby

@Amber sometime after midnight i couldn't wait any longer I was so knackered

Oh bless you love I'm so sorry, this is the last thing you need right now. I'm in the process of breaking up with my Nov baby's dad as we speak, if you want to message me for anything x

@Amber aw thank you 😊 🙏

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