Living alone
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@Nez I currently live with my mum and he lives with his brother but I get the impression he likes his own space. I was around his today and he moaned about not being able to chill because we were there. He has changed a lot since being with his brother and I think now we have been separated for going on 7 months he prefers his own space. I’m use to looking after the toddler on my own and have him 24/7
Aren’t you comfortable at your mums? Doesn’t your mum help out? How would that affect you if you moved out not having your mum around as often?
Ah love you need help, I am in the thick of it (I have a new born and a 2 year old) and any help is crucial.can you stay with family till you get used to it may be? Or may be have a nanny to help ? Sending you love vibes
@Nez my mum has a illness which causes her to be in bed often and her partner helps me look after her, I am buying my own house ready for the next baby. My mum is wanting to move her boyfriend in when I leave and he doesn’t like me much so would rather have my own space.
@rita his family are very supportive and so is mine. I don’t have many family unfortunately my dad suffered a stroke and needs 24/7 care, my mum has a illness she has a partner (he is late 70’s and gets tired easily) and my grandma is mid 80’s so she needs some help here and there. His mum and sister step in and help so does his brother
I understand. But will you be able to afford to pay for a mortgage plus two bubbas? I get you want your own space but won’t you be putting yourself under a lot of pressure?
@Nez it would be paid outright luckily so only costs would be bills and food
Ok well then if you’re sure you’ll be ok and manage fine then it seems like you’ve made your decision
@Nez thank you, hopefully it will be a success
What’s making you consider living alone?