Would you be mad?
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I personally don’t see the issue there. I’d actually feel happy that my husband is out, enjoying himself with or without me…… I just don’t understand how the kids feel weird when they’re with their mother? Or how you know that a baby feels weird? Unless you guys weren’t supposed to sleep there to begin with. But a simple conversation could’ve fixed that too.
Yeah I’d be a lil pissed off. Also as a kid I absolutely hated staying anywhere that wasnt my own house so I get that too.
@Missy They feel weird being at someone else house. One is special needs and is used to his routine and has been emotional because he wants to go home. But i calmed him down.
But they were going to feel weird about being at someone’s house regardless if dad went out or not. Because they were going to be in someone else’s house regardless. So I don’t understand why that plays a part. You have to also let your husband be an individual. Let him do him too. You guys cannot just be up under each other all the time. He sometimes needs to clear his mind also.
@Missy Yes but i only have two hands and when they all need me at once it is hard. Obviously if he was there he would have been helping me with them. But he went, i didn’t deny him anything. I was just venting.
Hey love you're not weird. Sometimes it becomes overwhelming as a mom and with three kids, I know it's a lot. However, you should be ok with him leaving for a little while, but you have to be able to do the same while he watches the kids. Just have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel. Be as transparent as possible