@Chantal yes, both are his. Both birthday were traumatic. With my first was preeclampsia and emergency c section after induction. Second was scheduled c section at and neglect in hospital and postpartum preeclampsia. He hears me for a bit, and then things are good for a day.
Smh I hate to hear things like this!!
Is the first his? If so how was he with the first? Was there trauma with the this pregnancy/delivery? I cried to my husband and had someone else talk as well. And it clicked.