Need someone to talk to ..

I don’t know if I’m exaggerating but I don’t know if I want to call it quits I feel confused and sad because we’ve had past relationship problems .. where he looks up other females on instagram or has tried to get close to another female at a party .. and now only fans .. 😞 I just need someone to give me honest advice I feel so heart broken and not enough ..

I’m sorry you’re going through this. And I want to help if I can possibly

And I forgot to add that my son is turning 1 next week .. I feel so bad bc I’m lacking so much energy, I feel depressed. No matter what I’m going to pick myself up and do a birthday party for my son but mannnn I’m sad this bullshit had to happen around a important time

Has this happened before and have you guys had talks about each other and stuff? Far as a relationship

Sorry * the relationship

You are not exaggerating. Have you brought it up to him yet?

I would approach the conversation something like : hey babe I really want to talk to you about something that’s been bothering me recently.. when can we talk? Tell him exactly what you saw and how it made you feel… then see his response. The way he responds will tell you what you need to know. However, the fact that this has already been an issue and he’s still doing it … makes me believe he kinda doesn’t care & isn’t respecting your boundaries or your relationship. At this point if you still want to talk it out, cool. But if you were to say : babe x, y,z has been bothering me recently .. we’ve already had these issues in the past and it makes me feel x, y,z … I can’t be in this relationship anymore.. etc etc.. that would be totally valid. I don’t think you’re exaggerating at all.

@Kb when I gave him his phone back I left it unlocked and opened on the web page so he’s seen what I seen and he followed me inside the house and told me he didn’t see anything which it’s a lie bc on there it said “seen yesterday” 😞 and I’ve been sad about it and he knows I have he tries to make it up to me but I can’t let it go it sucks how he didn’t even consider my feelings .. and it hasn’t been the first time well on only fans yes but on other websites no .. it’s to the point where I don’t know if his love for me is real or not . He feels to comfortable betraying me and hurting me

@Tiawanna we have talked about it he denies he’s seen anything.. but it’s not the first time. It seems like he’s always lustful and we once went to a party together and he met a female there and he followed her on instagram.. I just feel like perhaps he’s not into me.. he says he loves me but his actions don’t match.. I don’t even know what to believe anymore ..

Sad part that hurts the most is that we have 3 handsome boys and we’ve been married for 3 years but we’ve been together for a total of 8yrs now 🫤 he’s all I’ve known. But I do feel drained from this bullshit .. like I said it’s not the first time it’s starting to feel like a cycle.

… I don’t like to intrude. But I.. idk what to say cause it okay to forgive once but a second time it’s different now.

Youre allowed to put your foot down and say enough is enough. You don’t have to deal with this no matter how many kids and how much time invested in the relationship. It’s sad and unfortunate but he should have more respect for you and your marriage.

And I understand but you have to be happy in order for your family to be happy.

@Kb And himself

@Kb I know you’re right and I think I am ready to move forward in life without him .. I’ve realized I have had enough

I wish you the best. You don’t deserve the foolishness 🩷

I wish the best for you as well and god is one man that will never leave you and your kids. Don’t forget that

🩷❤️🩷❤️

@Tiawanna thank you 🩷