I wouldn’t stop it I’d go w her lead and try to potty train her, I’m not going to force a toddler that doesn’t want to wear diapers, to keep wearing diapers she’s obv feeling uncomfortable at any lil pee so I’d get 2-3 incontinence pads for the bed, a bunch of undies, try to day train her and then once she’s no accidents for a week then I’ll jump to night training . My daughter was trained at 19m that was a long time ago though.
You can't really train nighttime dryness as it is a hormonal thing.
Maybe do pull ups for night and just work on daytime potty training? Does she communicate when she needs to go? Also videos or books really helped us.
You don't. Some mess is part of it. Read the books, praise her like crazy when she does a good job, talk about it a LOT. Don't stress the mess, or it sets you back a step. You've got this mama. 👍