Early intervention

Today was my 2 1/2 year olds early intervention zoom meeting. He did good at first and then tantrum happened and just talking questions asked. But I was proud of him but when they tell you what he needs it’s like yes I want best for him to get whatever he needs to meet the level he needs to be at. But it also feels like you failed to teach him things and I know it’s his pace and all kids are different speech that everyone gives but I’m still his mom, I still feel my job to teach him everything as a nurturer I feel I failed. I’m never upset with him to me he will always be the best the smartest he is the brightest but as me as his mom feels I just didn’t get him where he needs. Please don’t be harsh I just need encouragement and reassurance. Lately I’ve been getting hard criticism and judgement and always down talking me and I just want best for my baby and I know I have done my best always I literally always will.