Am I the arsehole?
Okay I’m nearly 35 weeks pregnant with 3 children the youngest 2 being 3 and 10 months old and I’m still working 2 days a week right up to my due date. I do everything house and children wise. My back and general body is fucked I’m in pain 24/7 and bedtime is probably the worse. As a result my patience is very short. If someone speaks to me even with a slight rude tone I do not have the patience for it and I am ‘nasty’ in the way I speak back. I know I’m snapping but I’m snapping because someone else is either being rude or nasty in the way they are speaking to me or just being pure stupid/selfish in their actions. Mainly my husband. Am I being an arsehole?
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No your husband is.
People around us don’t keep up with the novelty of us being pregnant or raising children, so even their basic actions seem stupid without them realising 😂 I get sooo annoyed when someone (a male) complains about being tired, just looking at them thinking ‘mate, you have no idea till you wrap a watermelon around your waist 24/7’ 🤨 You aren’t wrong, but neither are they. It’s just a lack of understanding & empathy for a pregnant woman. Once baby is here, you’ll feel better as our hormones get calmer & physically not that tired 🫶🏻
I’m glad I’m not the only one. My response is just dialled to bitch it seems 😂😂 2 random strangers have even got it in the past week for being rude to me for no reason 🙈😩
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No you are exhausted and rightfully so.