Need some advice????

So my husband was sick throwing up last night. I took care of him as I usually do. But he woke up at 3:30AM bitching cause he was going to die of a heat strong let me remind you I had the AC set to 68 like he always has it. Well then he starts bitching how I ain’t cleaned the house or put away clean laundry in over a month. Which is a complete lie. I’m a stay at home mom who home schools and cleans every single day. Let me also remind you we have a fucked up washer and dryer so it takes all day to wash and dry one load. So yes of course I’m behind on laundry. Maybe he should get me a washer and dryer that works. Anyways so here I am at 3:30AM cleaning house. Sweeping and picking up toys and putting away clean dishes. Only thing I didn’t do was put away laundry cause it’s in our room and he is sleeping in there so here I am sleeping in my daughters room to avoid the fighting cause “I’m Lazy”. What would yall do in my situation

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I’m so sorry what a nightmare. You’ll definitely have to talk to him when he’s feeling better . Guys can be the biggest babies

Oh this isn’t just cause he sick he bitches at me all the time about how I’m “not” doing my job as a stay at home mom and wife

I'm confused. If your home was clean, then why are you cleaning at 330 am?

I think its rediculous to start a fight at 3am, obviously if he isn't well he can't do it, but why doesn't he help?

I would go to parents for the week and leave him on his own. He doesn’t appreciate you and that looking after 4 children is a full time job itself. Alternatively tell him to stay at home with the children as you want to get a job. That will shut him up.

I wouldn’t do any cleaning,cooking,laundry for him or “looking” after him till he apologised for the disrespect. He also should be helping with everything household and with the kids. Sorry but I wouldn’t ever take being disrespected by my partner. Oh and if he did it again he can pack and bag

@Jules just because I got a few toys on the floor from my kids playing doesn’t mean my house is dirty.

@Kat he does help but he thinks he does it all himself and he doesn’t

@Heather💋 the audacity

@Elaine thought bout going to my moms. And no I’ve tried the whole I want a job and you stay home he said I would love that and starts a whole fight

I quit doing my part for about a week when i was sick and my husband dound a whole new appreciation for me when he had to pick up the slack.. he had a different tune after that. He thankfully has never been one to be mean about the house but he has made comments occasionally and those are no more. I honestly dont know if that would help in your case. It sounds like your husband doesn't have much respect for you as it is up unfortunately. I feel like that's something that needs address asap whether in counseling or just a good sit down convo together.

Ignore him and go to bed.

He can't be very sick if he has all that energy to bitch and moan...

@Kelly spirit sister. He'd have my sweetest Goodnight. The way he'd wake up and still find that "imaginary mess" lol 🤣🤣

tell him if he’s not happy with how you organise the house then he’s more then welcome to Organise it himself. You’re not an octopus you can’t do everything all by yourself and he’s welcome to help. Sick or not he shouldn’t be chatting down to you there’s absolutely no excuse and maybe if he wasn’t throwing up everywhere then there would be time to clean up but for now until everyone is feeling better some things can Wait xx

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