Enjoying your self when you have a toddler

Is it just me that finds it hard enjoying your self drinking or out at family functions when you want to have a drink but can’t as much as you have a toddler that is full on and you would love to enjoy a hang over in peace. How do you cope do you still enjoy your self and suffer the next day. I literally can’t so feel like I’m just a boring person that does not go out now 🤣🙃