Husband’s family issues vent
I need to please vent after another terrible holiday experience where my husband requested we go to his family’s event
He is HOPELESS with any issue having to do with his family and we are experiencing a lot and have been for a long time
Their issues are causing issues in our immediate family and marriage
My husband can’t process anything or talk about anything - he just gets upset, overwhelmed, then “forgets?” or ignores it and then we’re back to the same situation next time we have to be forced to be around them all
I’m just so sick and tired of it all and anything I say is used against me
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Take him to therapy. He has issues from his childhood... You can get into it without being the bad guy or asking the hard questions. You can also let him know how you feel, how it affects you, what specifically bothers you, and why. Sometimes, it's just easier to hear from someone other than your spouse....
@Bonny Here’s a helpful tidbit…he won’t go. He doesn’t believe in therapy bc he tried it once and the therapist wasn’t a fit and he couldn’t get comfortable. He hides emotions so it was the worst thing that could have happened therapy-wise. I’m in therapy and he doesn’t think it’s good for me either.
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