In Laws

We no longer have a relationship with mine. Infact I have seen them numerous times & they walk past me and my daughter like they have no idea who we are. My daughters also a sep22 baby so only 2 and knows no different. They made my life hell when pregnant not wanting me to go ahead with pregnancy when we told them, telling everyone I was pregnant before we announced so I had friends messaging me asking why I hadn’t told them. Then when I had a scan they posted it all over social media saying how excited they were??? When baby was born they came to my house 3 times over the first week (I had no complaints with this) week 2 they wanted us to visit their house. They only live 15 minutes away however my partner didn’t drive at the time and I was still in lots of pain after an awful labour and really struggled driving there (why I even did I don’t know!) when we were there my MIL would not hold our dusghrer saying she was too small and she was scared. FIL would hold her but refused to

Aw I’m so sorry they made you feel this way!! It’s awful. I just don’t understand. We where fine before I have my babies now boundaries as simple as, please don’t just pop up at my window several times a day especially after 2 c-section deliveries and trying to breastfeed. Just text 30 minutes beforehand so I can sort myself. Crazy!

Change a nappy or even take off her cardigan as she was “too small” my daughter was a very sicky baby so we was always trying new ways to feed her trying to prevent this from happening. We finally did and he refused to hold her in the position my partner asked him because “I’ve had kids I know better than you” my daughter then projectile vomited all over him and um so o angry with myself for not being brave enough to speak up and just take my daughter off him. They would ask to have her overnight although they wouldn’t make a bottle/feed her (after the sick incident) or change her nappy and at 2 weeks old I was not letting my daughter out of my sight so how they expected her overnight I do not know. MIL posted her all over social media making out to be amazing grandmother and told me it wasn’t my choice not have my own dusghrer posted on social media when told to stop x