Miscarriage

I just went through one 2 weeks ago around the same exact time in my pregnancy. Yes they did show me the screen and I told them I was very certain I was miscarrying. They told me I had fully passed the gestational sack and that there was still tissues coming down. If you have any other questions you reply or message me and I’m happy to talk to you! So sorry you are going through this. It’s the worst

Hi! I’m sorry for your loss if it ends up that way for you. I’ve been through this twice at the scan stage. My last one was January I was near enough 10 weeks and I seen the screen from the start. Where as I’ve seen other places look first before they show you. They also ask if you want a pic at the end even if it is a miscarriage. X

You can say you don’t want to see the screen

I’m so sorry for your loss, I went through a miscarriage last year and from what I remember they didn’t show me the screen x

If you do your scan, you can absolutely request to see or not to…and even though when my miscarriage happened my baby was already gone and all I could see was the shape of my womb… I asked for a picture anyway… I framed it and placed it beside my living kids on the shelf and it honestly gave me so much peace to know that I could count them as one of my children even though I never held them. It gave me a lot of peace in trying to conceive again after that I didn’t have to just “move on” but could grieve and miss the life that was there… so it’s entirely up to you. You might find it helps in closure. Just communicate with the technologist before hand.

I know exactly what this is like. Last Oct 22nd I miscarried at 8weeks. I already knew I had miscarried due to the pain and clots. I got a scan 3days after and they showed the screen ect which confirmed no baby. Which gives you a sense of relief to know it’s okay to start moving about and that you just have to deal with cramps rather than being worried about baby once you know it’s not there. It is devastating specially if it’s a wanted pregnancy. But make sure they take blood over 2-3 different days and that’ll confirm if a baby really was there. Your hormones might make you feel really sad, angry and overall drained. But I promise in the next few weeks you’ll start to feel a bit happier as your body gets back to “normal”. If you do ttc again which is what I did. I stopped bleeding 3days after I miscarried which is sheer luck. But we then had sex right away as it’s known to be more positive result to get pregnant faster, it does sort of hurt after miscarriage down there but

Everyone is different. I then tested to make sure I had no HG line for a few days. Stopped testing and just had fun with my partner. I then had a feeling to test 4weeks after I miscarried on November 27th so pretty much a month of negatives then I got a positive test result. So technically I fell pregnant right after the miscarriage. So I would recommend to try soon if your wanting to ttc. If not it’s perfectly okay. I’m now 25weeks on and I am due in 14weeks. It’s weird how quickly this has went since the mc. I am worried nearly every day but I’m perfectly happy with how things worked out. You will have that chance too, don’t stress you’ll turn out okay🩷