Story time . Will be short and to the point !
So me and my fiance been together for 2 1/2 years. Part of the first year he was in a “separated divorce” wasn’t final yet. & they have a son together. My intuition told me they are still…
Communicating about things they shouldn’t and he would hide his text alerts and I couldn’t know the password to his phone. So I went ahead and spoke to 2 male friends from work. Just chatting, nothing sexual. He sees that and goes on a rant. If I tell him I don’t feel secure because of his actions when it comes to the “wife” , am I wrong ? So now he’s does things like check my social media to see if we follow each other etc. is that a bit much ? It’s been 1 year since this incident. I never gave him a reason to have bad thoughts and still to this day he’s does and checks my social media to see if I follow them and threatens to leave. Keep in mind, he has done the same. It stresses me with these random bad thoughts when I don’t do anything or give him a reason to think bad about that specific situation.
I think the problem is you both don’t have trust in each other and once that’s damaged it’s very hard to get back! It sounds like a tit for tat situation which isn’t healthy /: