Silent treatment - again
We all just got back almost 2 weeks ago from a lovely vacation as a family. Unfortunately we all got influenza on the trip home and have been down and out for almost 2 weeks now. Every single one of us. Anyway fast forward my hubby is feeling better and goes to work (he works 12-13 hour days but with the travel is more like 14 hours away from the home on working days) and comes home after his shift. Meanwhile I have had two sick babies to tend to as well as myself who is expecting baby no 3 so I’m exhausted. Hubby watches the hockey game and starts cheering loudly (about 10 min after I’ve gotten the kids down for the night) and I laughed and said shh not so loud. He got mad and said that I always do this (dampen his fun) and said he wanted me to leave the room and not talk to him. So I just went to bed at this point. It’s been 5 days and he’s barely speaking to me unless necessary. He did this to me once before at the very beginning of this pregnancy. I’m so mad that I asked him last night what the heck he wants me to do just sit in our marriage in awkward silence for the next 20 years. He said he has nothing to talk about. Again I just went to bed because I’m too tired and pregnant to deal with this childish behaviour. I’m not sure if I’m in the wrong here or if it’s him but I’m exhausted from the whole thing.
We’ve been together for 12 years married for 4 this is brand new behaviour.