I don’t feel like a person anymore

does anyone else feel this way? since becoming a wife and a mother i don’t feel like my own person. when i don’t need to be taking care of my baby, and when i’m not spending time with my partner, i realize i don’t have any interests anymore. there’s no songs i like to sing, no shows i like to watch, no hobbies, i don’t do my hair or my makeup anymore. my life is so devoted to taking care of the two most important people in my life that i’ve kinda forgotten who i am outside of them and i’m not sure how to fix it per say.

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I’m in ur same boat to b honest it’s hard for me to find interests in stuff n things anymore what I have done was started to do is I forced myself to shower everyother day than I forced myself to put on some makeup and get dressed those days that I showered once I got that down than I moved onto taking selfies on the days that I showered got dressed and did my makeup n I even forced myself to take sexy photos also because my therapist says that until u recognize urself as a human and a person u will not b able to move forward she says lil tasks like showering putting makeup on getting dressed taking selfies and taking sexy selfies r simple easy ways for u to realize urself. Now don’t expect this to come over night because it won’t for example it took me weeks to get down showering everyother day I’m here for u if hru wanna chat

I had been feelings this same exact way for months.. I just woke up one day & said “f* this… I’m putting my lashes on” I got tired of being tired. I hope you find your way boo! You got this ❤️

This is so true for me too. I don't even know what I want to do for fun anymore like I sometimes get some time to myself after the baby is asleep and I get the house cleaned up and I'm just like idk what to do now 😐 even if I had a full day to myself I don't know what I would do

Ladies! You all deserve to put effort into self care and refind yourselves. You are more than just moms and wives and you deserve to shine as the beautiful woman that you are, all on your own! ❤️

Learn to love yourself,& appreciate yourself first. As per me what I do is taking shower in the morning, dress nicely, put perfume,make your hair, do simple make up, eat fruits, prepare nice food.... through all this I find myself feeling okay.Try this my loves

Same here. Lying here on the couch, the kids and hubby are asleep and I don't know what to do with myself... But putting make up on, going to the hairdresser, and buying new nice clothes helped me a lot with feeling like a woman again. Gazes from men on the street help a lot tbh. ;) I try to find new music on spotify, read new books, re-discover my sensuality and sexiness. sports help a lot, too. All the best for all you sexy mamas!

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