Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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Can’t understand why I feel the way that I do, I had a miscarriage back in March at 6 weeks, I’m now pregnant again and I’m 7 weeks but I just don’t feel happy or excited, just having just a negative outlook on everything thinking no-one is happy for me (even though I know people are) living situation etc isn’t the ...

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20 week miscarriage

We have recently experienced a late miscarriage with our first baby, at our 20 weeks scan we learnt our baby boy had no heartbeat and gave birth a day later. He was showing signs of Edward’s syndrome (the only test we didn’t manage to have due to position of baby at the 12 weeks scan). It’s the most painful experien...

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Blighted Ovum / ectopic pregnancy / miscarriage

Hi everyone, I’m looking for stories on the above topics if possible I had an early sven yesterday, privately, where they saw a sac but no fetus. They immediately referred me to an early pregnancy unit, as it could be ectopic, blighted ovum or most likely I was just too early for them to see anything. I should ...

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Subchorionic hematoma or miscarriage 😭

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subchorionic hematoma 7 weeks

Hi, I just found out that I have some pinkish and white discharge. I got scared and went to the ER. She told me the baby is fine and that I have a subchorionic hematoma. Has anyone experienced this and can reassure me, please? Also, the baby was so small, she said. Update: I started bleeding. I can’t wait for my n...

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Looking for advice ❤️

Hi everyone. I’m just curious if anyone has info after being referred to gynea for testing for recurrent miscarriages with the NHS? What it entails and what was your outcome? Thank you 🥰

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More fertile after a miscarriage my ar*e

Cycle 5 negative after negative. Feel like giving up. I absolute hate TTC. My body feels like a failure.

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Miscarriage?

I’m 4 weeks pregnant and I’m leaking watery fluid, could this be a sign of a miscarriage? I had one before I had my son in 2022 but I bleed. I’m getting a lot of stomach cramps as well. My anxiety is at an all time high so could this be causing a possible miscarriage?

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How to help a friend

A dear friend of mine is having a miscarriage. I want to help and support her- in your experience what has helped from friends? I am also pregnant (20 weeks) and have a 2 yr old.. should I just stay away? I can’t imagine she’d want to see me. It feels so difficult to be any use at all and all I want to do is hug h...

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Pregnant after miscarriage

Just got a positive test after an early miscarriage at the beginning of August, think I’m around 3 1/2 weeks but haven’t had a period so the dating is a bit confusing. It’s so strange how different it feels this time round after the miscarriage, it really has taken all the excitement away. I’m praying this one s...

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Did you wait for your period?

Did you wait for your period before trying again after miscarraige?

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Did anyone have surgical management of miscarriage and go onto have a baby?

We just found out I had a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks and need intervention to pass the baby. I am thinking of surgical management because I just want it over with and with less pain. But my main worry is being able to conceive again after, has anyone had the surgery and gone onto have success after? I’m so upset ...

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Anyone out there already seeing a high risk MFM?

My MFM appointment is scheduled for September 17th. I am 9w5d pregnant with my 6th pregnancy. I have one living child who is 13 and 4 concurrent losses over 10 years TTC . Turns out I have a severe clotting disorder that raises my changes of miscarriage to anywhere from 89-100%! How has this never been found out i...

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Toxic partners mother

Hey ladies keeping myself anon for this one so my partner mother is really against us buying things for little girl I had a miscarriage before this about 2 years ago and she keeps dropping sly comments like “don’t buy anything incase you have a miscarriage”need help and advice as it’s not like I can avoid her!!!!!

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Repeat MMCs?

Hello, I had a MMC (12 weeks, baby stopped growing 8 weeks) in September 2021, my rainbow baby in November 2022, and just had a MMC (8 weeks, baby stopped 6 weeks). Feeling very unlucky to go through this again. I just wondered if it’s common to have multiple missed miscarriage? Like it is my bodies style to not ...

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Miscarriage?

Hello, I am 5 weeks pregnant so very early. But tonight I started bleeding some. Pretty light and bright red. Is this the start of a miscarriage?

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Chemical pregnancy vs miscarriage

I lost my pregnancy in July I was 5w4d when I started spotting I still tested positive until an hour after spotting I got a negative test. Was just wondering if that would be considered a chemical pregnancy or miscarriage since it was 4days past the 5 week mark. I just got a positive test today 11dpo and I’m just ...

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Signs of miscarriage

What symptoms did you experience during your early miscarriage? Backstory: I ovulated on 15th and had my first positive test on 26th (11dpo) and on 27th I took a digital test which said 1-2wks. The digital test hasn’t progressed to 2-3 and the test lines aren’t getting any darker (or lighter) however I experienced...

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Missed miscarriage

Does anyone else just feel so betrayed by their body? Like why didn't any senses go off or any symptoms happen I just feel so angry at my body and like my body is a separate thing to to the rest of me just feel very frustrated and not wrapping my head around it still. How does anyone go on to have trust in their bod...

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Staying hopeful!

I hope this one sticks, silent miscarriage June 2023... 5 weeks today!

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