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Postpartum rage

Is anyone dealing with postpartum rage? How are you working through it or how have you worked through it in the past ?

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Braxton hicks

Has any of you been having Braxton hicks? If so what do you find helps. The pain woke me up in the night 😂

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Guilt

Any tips on how to cope with the guilt of sending my baby to full time childcare? I feel in such a minority but for financial reasons I cannot do part time hours at my work and have returned full time. My daughter started full time nursery this week and get so upset. She's now ill with a cold, I feel like she should...

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Is it normal to ‘ want ‘ another baby already?

I am 5 months postpartum and love my baby so much! I feel he’s growing so fast. Lately I’ve noticed that the past two cycles I get sad when my period come because I’m not trying to get pregnant but I’m not on birth control or anything. We do the pull out method always. I feel like I might want another baby already. ...

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Going f*cking insane. SOS

I’ve been sahm for a few years, I had such patience. My kids who are still little but not old enough for preschool yet are literally making me crawl out of my skin. I feel the irritability growing every single day, I snap more though I have some rare zen days I’m nervous and frustrated. I exercise, I try to prep so ...

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Experience with 4 year old girls!!?

4 has been our toughest age. She’s so defiant, won’t listen and ignores us, and no consequences seem to affect her. There are times we have to raise our voice with her because she just will not respond and continues to ignore us when we’re trying to stop her from doing something. Most of the time she’ll get yelled a...

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Unsupportive partner need to rant

My baby’s dad who I would hardly even say we are together anymore is always saying horrible things like no would ever want me to, no one would ever love me , I’m the mum so should I be doing everything it’s my job To do everything for the baby , I’m a pig . I’m useless, everything I do is wrong , I’m lazy . I don’t ...

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How is everyone who has the Blues lately? Handling it? I have PTSD Depression diagnosed, My Husband has bad court co parenting problems drama w his Ex rn, My MiL got diagnosed 3rd stage lung cancer and my license got suspended.

And it's the holidays, still have my 2 kids I care and have to be strong for..Some day it's heavy and harder definitely to put the cheer on..I just can't seem to find it yet this year.The Christmas Spirit. I pray everyday 🙏

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Don’t want to be a mother

Please don’t judge. But does anyone else just hate being a mother? I have a toddler and a newborn and I’m just not enjoying it at all. My toddler is just awful to say the least and just kicks off and bites all the time (I’ve literally tried everything to stop him but nothing has worked). My baby is lovely but has ...

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BPD & Pregnant

My emotions are on 1000 , on top of having bpd i feel like i can’t get a grip on anything !! I fear this wave will affect things with me and the fiancé 🥺😭 I just wanna be okay . I go to therapy I have hobbies … something is just OFF

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My admission

Does anyone else feel sad that they did not get the love that they felt they deserved? I’ve never said this out loud and feel weird for admitting it. I've been in survival mode and have not fully processed the end of my marriage. All I know is I feel robbed of experiencing a love that felt safe, genuine and pure (a...

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Personal question…

Is anyone’s hair falling out??😭 I have got 2 beautiful little girls! Mia is 2 and Evie is 4 month so 2 under 2 and since having Evie my hair was so nice best its ever been but this last month or so I’m losing so much hair! My hair is so thin it’s ridiculous! I don’t know what to do🤦🏽‍♀️ has anyone got any tips?…

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Self care

I feel like I've completely neglected myself since baby came along, most days I'm lucky if I get a shower. I truly don't know how mums are doing this on their own because the only time I can do anything for myself is when my husband comes home from work. I see other mums out and about and they look great, I look lik...

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Postpartum depression?

I had my son 6 days ago and have been loving my son. I don’t regret becoming a mom but I can’t help but feel sad that I can’t leave the house by myself again or I can’t just make plans without having a plan for where my son will go. I can’t help but miss being me without being a mother. Is this postpartum depression?

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Postpartum itching down below

Baby was born a week ago and today I've felt so itchy down there it's unbearable! I didn't have any stitches, but could it just be things healing? I was going to get thrush treatment but not sure if its just normal with pads/bleeding etc. - did anyone else have this?

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This Regression… what the actual F!

Wow I’m struggling. Baby up All night, upset all day, won’t be put down but also won’t go to sleep in my arms. What the hell do I do!!! It’s so hard. No time to eat, shower, sleep.. how does one survive 😭 I’m on a verge of a mental breakdown.. she’s just got over Covid too been in hospital 3 days. I feel like…

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How do u heal?

Ive been broken up with my ex nearly a year and i still feel like shit. It was a domestic abusive relationship and i did have to see him for court a few times but i thought id be okay by now and im really not 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any advice

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Saying

My mil will often say ‘oh I know, I know’ if my babies cry and she’s holding them, it really grates on me cause she doesn’t know what’s wrong and should just give baby back to me or my partner. Would this annoy anyone or am I just being sensitive 😂

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Pregnancy Acne

Anyone else experiencing pregnancy acne? I’ve been having really painful acne on my neck, chin, and back ever since I got pregnant. I know it’s because hormones, but does anyone have any tips on how to reduce acne?

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Giving up

Anyone else feel like giving up in life? All I want to do is cry and my stomach hurts from the stress, anxiety, crying etc and I just don’t know what else to do and how much more I can take. 💔

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