Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

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Feel sad tonight

I'm feeling quite sad this evening about my baby boy who's just over two, I think he has autism and I just wish I could chat with him so badly but he just doesn't understand communication and doesn't speak, I pray with everything I have, he will get diagnosed and the speech therapy will help him because I feel so lo...

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question for the girls who had a baby whilst living at home with your parents! 👩🏻‍🍼🩷

me n my partner live with my mum & i’m expecting my baby in july! i want to stay here because it’s cheaper & also, we have a big spare room for baby. however, i am worried that i won’t be as independent & i’ll subconsciously let my mum do everything because i’ll be tired😢 has anyone experienced this or did you…

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Should I feel guilty?

My mom moved to be close to me & my kids. Which is great. I truly love having her around. But she doesn’t have a support system here (aside from me & my kids) & doesn’t want one. No friends, she doesn’t work, no other family close by. These are her choices, she could work or get out & meet people if she wanted to. A...

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Letting go of friendships

I have had a pretty traumatic year on top of just having a (second) baby and i feel like everyone i thought was a good friend has completely dropped off the face of the earth. During good times they have been good friends but i feel like any hardships and i never hear from them. I feel like people dont know what t...

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How are we dealing with burnout? I’m starting to hate being a single mom because of this, I’m tired of having to be super woman. I feel very blessed to be able to provide but barely surviving

😭 no real friends or family that’s close. I’m over it all.

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"I'm done having kids"

Who here feels like they are capital D-DONE having kids. And who feels like they'll never "feel" DONE? I'm currently a Mama to 3 kids. I love kids and I don't think I'll ever feel "DONE" if that makes sense 🤔😂. I'm stopping myself at 3 due to the lack of support that I have and because I want to be sure I can…

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Does anyone feel a bit dumber after having their second kid?

I used to be so on top of everything and these days I feel a bit more frazzled and takes me a bit longer to process things. My brain feels like mush part sometimes. Is this my new norm?? How do I fix this?

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Anyone else feel lost?

I'm now sat here, 15 weeks left, nothing more I can really do other than the odd shop for baby and organising is scheduled for Sunday. I spend all day watching videos on parenting tips and lists of things I'll need from this point on. Anyone else feeling like they are just waiting and feeling kind of lost?

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Absence makes the heart grow fonder

I, Incognito user, say false

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Have you left your baby for a whole day or night yet?

It feels like I'm the only one out of my friends who hasn't left their LO for a significant amount of time yet. I don't mean nursery during work, I mean a whole day out with friends or a night away. How about everyone else?

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Hmmm

Does this sound like a sincere apology? The yeses makes me feel like it isn’t or maybe I’m tripping.

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New journey

I am on a loc journey

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Mum friends🫶🏼

Hi, my name is Beth and I’m 23. I’m a first time mum to my beautiful little boy Arlo-James and I’m struggling with postpartum depression and loneliness. If I’m being honest I think I just need some friends, real friends. Someone you can trust and just vent to and FaceTime. If you feel like you just need someone to t...

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Break

wish I could get a break before I break somebody in my house.

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Prioritizing SELF care 💆🏼‍♀️

How do YOU practice self-care on tough days? Self care is something we ALL need to prioritize. You can't pour from an empty cup! So what do you do to take care of you??

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Am I stupid for feeling this way ?

Hi guys so my daughter is so attached to my dad and now my sister has come from the uk and has only seen her a few times And my daughter is so so attached to my sister . Wants nothing to do with me at all and when my sister leaves the room or my dad she gets so upset . But when I leave she doesn’t even care or notic...

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First time mom

I’m currently 8 months postpartum and ever since i had my baby it been an eye opener for me, especially the people that family members and friends. People really don’t care.I done calling people first just so people can talk to me or my baby. I learn the hard way. So after today i wash my hand with people. People ne...

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How can you be friends with people that are wealthy in comparison to you when they don't understand how your lives differ?

Ever since my twins were born I have been having trouble making friends. We are not poor but definitely not wealthy. We have enough to pay the bills and a modest savings but no money for extras like holidays or even the much needed extra therapies our disabled son could benefit from. It has happened over and over th...

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Feeling overwhelmed

Can anyone relate to this? I’m 26 and going to be a first time mum in May and absolutely sh***ing myself. I’m emotional about it and just already feeling like I’m going to fail…

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Trump is in power

The best response? Live your life well. The cumulative effect of our individual thoughts and actions can influence. Humans lie, bully and others will enable it...it's part of the human condition. Doesn't make it acceptable but living your life well is the best antidote (e.g., not causing egregious harm to others by ...

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