Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Mental Health.

I’m not ok

I just want to disappear….. I don’t want to adult…. I don’t want to be a mom…… I don’t want to be a wife….. I just don’t want to be here anymore… whatever that means…. I’m just done, I’ve had enough…

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Hate my job

I work as a CNA, and I hate it. (I never said I don’t do my work well). Thinking of quitting 😭😩, but I need more

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Leave an uplifting message, uplifting saying or tip in the comments for someone who may need it one day❤️

I’ll go first . “Love is a free gift that you can give everyday” 🫶🏾

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Some friends 🤞

Hi girls, i am 32 and I live in Coatbridge with my two kids 11 and 7, I am so lonely 😭 I have no friends at all it’s actually so hard with the good weather coming up I am in the house, I have the best family but they are busy with there own life’s, my 11 year old would rather be with his dad going to football, and…

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feeling bad for missing life before kids..

I am a 23 ftm & I had my daughter at 22 in November of last year & I feel like I’ve lost friends bc I’m at a different phase in my life than them. Being in your early 20’s everyone is still partying & doing their own thing & figuring out their life. I get dinner once in a while with my group of friends that is mixed...

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Family.

Has anyone had issues with family being distant once you had the baby, but while pregnant everyone was so excited and ready for them to be here? I feel like I give every opportunity for my family to see my daughter but when they have the chance no one shows up or they show up on their own time.

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Wanting other people more

My almost 2 yr old has always been clingy to me but lately she has been wanting certain people more than me. It makes me so sad, is this normal or am I doing something wrong!

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Never felt so alone. Should hubs be stepping up ?

Found out yesterday my dad has cancer. I'm beyond devastated. However, he had a cuddle etc and then went out to his friends for the night? Is this normal? Or should he be a bit more intuitive to think i need support right now. Or am I asking too much

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Living alone with baby

Does anyone live with their baby alone and isnt working? Is it difficult to manage paying bills etc or are you coping ok?

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Only-child loneliness?

Is anyone an actual successful only child? I come from a big family but I have fertility issues, I had my 2 yr old son and I have been trying unsuccessfully to have another. I hear my son playing alone and he sounds happy but if this doesn’t work out i wanted to hear any tips on raising a singleton. I don’t know any...

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Solo parent burnout

Any advice or solidarity please? Exhausted, low mood and craving me time :(

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Is being a stay at home mom lonely?

I feel this way. No one calls since they think I don’t have anything interesting to say

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Friends all about themselves and not asking about me postpartum

I feel that ever since being a stay at home mom, less friends call me. Or when they do call, they talk about themselves or others more than asking about how I am doing and my baby. It’s like my life is not as exciting, or they don’t think about how I feel and what I want to share. Anyone else experience this? I feel...

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So tired

I feel so empty and drained there is literally no one I can talk to. I feel stupid embarrassed and abandoned. I can’t work because I’m on bedrest and I’m always in the house. Im just so mentally , physically and emotionally drained and tired of crying all the time. I’m literally just going one day after the next jus...

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Attraction to other people

How often does this happen? For those of you that have been married 5 or more years...? Been 2 years with alot of ups and downs, 2 beautiful babies and no major issues between us, but the attraction faded, no going out on dates, no flirting, and very little time or headspace for intimacy. I am extremely attracted t...

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Heartbroken

How did you girlie's get over your ex? It's been a week since we broke up but I am STRUGGLING!! I have no friends, so no one to talk too and I don't go out so I'm stuck sat at home with my thoughts on where it went wrong as I thought everything was fine 😭 Of course my 6 year old keeps me occupied when she's…

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I can’t put my baby down

Please is out there anyone else who constantly has to carry their baby? I feel so lonely isolated and mentally broken. I’m so exhausted and it feels like it’s only me and my baby. Everyone else is having happy baby that will be happily playing in their mat. I can’t move, my toddler can’t sleep as my baby will always...

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Loneliness and agoraphobia

I'm just so, so lonely, and it hurts so much. My partner works 6/7 days from early morning to late at night, and I don't really have anyone else. I have severe anxiety, which doesn't let me leave the house, so I just feel so trapped for months and no friends and moved away from family. I just feel so isolated, an...

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You ever read the comments under a post and…

Just fucking cringe. Like some responses can be so outlandish, it doesn’t even feel real?😭 like are y’all okay? There’s a incredible lack of empathy and humanity in the world. It’s disappointing.

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What can I do for my only child

I won't be having more kids unless some miracle happens but I have no plans and circumstances that would allow me to have another My son is almost two and sometimes I feel it's so lonely and wish he had more kids around him. I do my best to see people as much as possible But if you were an only child what can I ...

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