@Chantal exclusively breastfeeding xx
Definitely bring up why you aren’t having sex. No need to pussy foot. I would ask why he wants to jerk off to porn instead of have sex and why that is enough for him
Porn is a no go for me but I had the same issue he never wanted sex but I did. Yet there was always porn in his history. He’s had an addiction and now that it’s been a few years and I feel I don’t trust what he does or says but I think he’s hopefully got it handled now. I’d for sure bring it up if it crosses any boundary for you.
You should communicate this with him. Tell him how his actions are causing more issues. Have a date night once a week. Play couple games bring back the intimacy not just in sex. You both need to have time to value and appreciate each other and start with the simple things like saying … thank you when a nice small gesture was made or out of no where just call him and say I miss you and I love you have a good day can’t wait to see you at home. These little changes can help start to breakdown the walls or shorten the distance you guys make be experiencing. I pray you get through this as I know it’s a very uncomfortable situation you’re in.
I watch a lot of porn but it’s always just a tool to help me orgasm and get on with my day. I have a very high sex drive and it would be impractical to have sex as much as I’d like to with my partner. Masturbation with the help of porn is just cleaner/faster
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