Sexual chemistry with someone else and not my husband

So ive cheated, not in a hood plave with husband, lacking sexual chemistry and think grown out of love with each other. Ive discovered that I have intense chemistry with someone else. Husband is wanting to give our marriage one final go and see if we can get back to a good place but im convinced it wont work, I really like this person but more than anything, the sexual tension is real. This person knows im married and is encouraging me to give my marriage another go and will wait for me if it doesnt work out. I have a child with my husband but he isnt thst great if a father whereas this other person is brilliant with my child, and I feel like in the long run it will be better to leave husband, our relationship is pretty toxic, my needs arent getting met at all. Idk what im looking for from posting this but needed to get it off my chest