Partner didn’t get me flowers for Valentine’s Day??

Yeah I'd ask him what's going on, just say what you've just said to him. See what he says 😬 x

Yeah. My partner was the same. I made the effort, got him a card & a few other bits and ended up with nothing back. Had a pretty crappy day, and it made it worse seeing all these other women getting cute gifts and flowers x

Do you both typically celebrate Valentines? I’m pregnant with first child and didn’t get flowers for the first year out of 3, however we are due to go away, and also both just think it’s a pointless day. If you truly love someone, you shouldn’t need to prove it just because it’s valentines but that’s just my opinion, no hate on anyone who does like the day & participates. I do appreciate it can be upsetting if you have an expectation to receive something and don’t. I’d ask him openly about it, maybe he just forgot or had a good enough reason not to get any? Honesty is the best policy after all 🙏🏻 Xx

Me and mine usually don’t put extreme effort into Valentine’s Day we tend to go to a shop the night before go our separate ways and put a little something and a card together then on the day gift eachother and have dinner together or go out for dinner then watch movies when home, the night before I said ohh we need to go to a shop I need to get you a card and he said oh I don’t need a card it’s fine which upset me I turn as I knew that means he was not bothering either, we have just been through ivf and I’m 22weeks with our little boy, I cried a few times yesterday and he finally said what’s wrong I admitted I was a little disappointed as this valentines is extra special I’m carrying out first and possibly only child and feel we should have been putting the effort in and I didn’t because he seemed to be acting like he was not interested in celebrating at all, he then suggested going out for dinner which we did but it felt kind of forced because it had took me getting a little upset 😫