Weekends- lie ins?

My husband and at weekends have our own lie ins. Mine is Saturday and his is Sunday. Little one wakes around 6am so whoever’s lie in it is the other one of us looks after the baby till 10am. I usually wake up at 8.30 but our rule is until 10am i can do what I want because he’s looking after baby and vice versa. But my husband also does a lot at night so maybe he needs to help out there more in order to “constitute a lie in”. My husband and I have a rule of before 2am I deal with all baby feeds and after 2am he deals with them. He will get up and change the nappy whilst I make the food so it’s equal. If you don’t get a lie in ever though and he doesn’t help then he doesn’t get one either

Tell him to stfu 🤣🤣 I'd be pissed off as well and you have every right to be annoyed. Men really don't understand what it takes to look after a baby and if he's able to sleep through the night when your little boy is waking up then he doesn't need a lie in.

Tell him to do the night feed/night wakes for a few nights and he can have the lie in 👍🏻😆

Wake him up every time baby wakes in the night. Then see if he still feels he needed a lay in before you did that…

I work and my husband is on paternity leave so we do he does the nights when I've got work and when I'm off we share it so if one does the night then they get the lay in and the other one gets up at 6am with the kids and visa versa, we just take it in turns

He should be bloody greatful he gets to sleep at night undisturbed! 😡 I’m EBF so I do all the night feeds. My partner is up at 5:30 for work 5 days a week and even on his days off he takes the baby so I can lay in and get some extra rest. He understands that I’m not sleeping well and he is so it’s the least he can do. Your partner sounds like an ass to be honest. I’d get him to do a week of night feeds then see how he feels! Grrr

Me and my partner share lie ins on a weekend. So on Saturday for example he’ll get up with him and take him downstairs for his normal routine then my LO goes down for first nap about 9/10ish. Then Sunday it’s my turn to get up with him so then we both get a lie in x

We share the night get ups aswell… I start the night then half way through we swap over and my partner takes over till he gets up for work at 6:30am. He works every other weekend but is off on a Tuesday so I let him have a lie in on a Tuesday but only till 8am as he then does the school drop off for my younger son. Then on the weekends he has off he usually gives me a lie in on a Sunday but I don’t usually need it as once I’m awake I’m awake and as I do the earlier night shift I’ve had a decent few hours. Once you have kids lie ins are non existent haha well until they are old enough to sort themselves out 😂.

Me and partner decide who will have the lie in over the weekends. However this morning we both woke around half 6 and up for the day because we were fast asleep by half 9 last night 😂. Luckily tomorrow is my lie in. You should have one lie in... Being a mum is the hardest job which doesn't pay! Leave him for a weekend with the baby, I did this for a pre planned holiday and when I returned things changed forever . 😂xx

I’ve now got three under 3. What is a lie in? 😂

@Jacqui I think I deffo should go out for a whole day 🤣

My other half works afternoons/evenings so he has a lie in every single day, even on the weekends when he stays with us at mine. I’m up by 9am at the latest (mostly 8am is when little one is up) I’m the only one who wakes with little one when he has his 1 night feed.