Boundries with newborn/little one
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@Nori in september/oct probably so its not that hot anymore. I don’t care if they will hate me or whatever a child is not a doll plus i will probably have the baby on me in a sling whenever someone comes over so they dont feel like they can just take the baby. And they know we have differences so im not fussed about the closest family as they understand, its the whatever your cousins and cousin cousins whole village thing that they think they are so important etc and will have a problem with it as one of the cousins thats in uk already had issue when i said no visitors at hospital or home for the first week , so im just trying to find some better way around it as i know immediate family will have some s**t talk later regarding it anyway but there should be some sort of way of making it “better” but obv i dont know it so i need suggestions 😅
I’d say baby wear the , because that’s what i’m going to be doing as-well i don’t want anyone holding/kissing my baby too
My partner said it and I reinforced it. Difficult but necessary x
Without being rude you have had a child with someone from a very different culture so without being rude you have to accept that with that comes different beliefs and practices yes you don’t your baby kissed but to say that they can’t hold the baby and passed round that’s what Albanian family’s do so you will have to change your attitude towards there culture before you visit
When are you thinking of going? And honestly you dont say anything, you make your husband say it. But tell him to not say that you said that. They will probably assume its you either way though and start hating you because thats how they are. But if he could try and say hes been seeing babies getting sick and hes worried because times have changed now you could probably get away with them not accusing you🤣.