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I don’t think watching porn in general is cheating but you don’t need to rub it in, that’s just rude.
Some people may not agree with me and that’s okay. This is my OWN personal opinion on this matter. I believe yes it is cheating and excuse my frankness, when a man watches porn he is physically cuming or ejaculating to a rainforest woman or video, he’s lusting after them either by their bodies, moans, sexual fantasies, or whatever is in those videos. He is physically and emotionally cheating by watching porn and having that intimate connection (over the phone or not) with someone who 1) isn’t his Wife, Girlfriend, Fiancé… 2) it would be no different if it was a LIVE FaceTime and there was another woman touching herself or having sex with someone while the guy watched. Unfortunately Porn and sex sell, you see it in movies and in books, tv shows and it’s accessible. But what it does is causes actual brain damage in the Male or female brain (who are addicted to porn or watch it) it slowly desensitizes different parts in the brain, where certain neurons are in charge of dopamine -pt1
Pt 2) dopamine, and serotonin levels. Which happens when humans are engaging in having sex. So there is many more things that come along that are harmful for the brain (male or female) and it’s not just that but also takes away the emotional intimacy that the man could have with his woman.
Idek why man watch that when they got weird 🤔hope you feel better
Some woman are okay with their man watching porn and some are not okay with it. I think you personally are valid and I am sorry you are going through this. My opinion is mine alone and I am just giving insight to why I think it is cheating but please know many other woman may disagree and that’s totally okay hon, we all have a right to our opinions.
The fact that he said okay I’ll watch porn instead feels like..sort of like he’s threatening you. Like trying to shame you for not wanting to do what he wants. It’s like if you go I don’t feel well I just wanna cuddle and he says ok I’ll just cheat on you later. Like god damn. Get checked cuz u can’t hold in your desires that’s it’s now or never ?
Whether you think its cheating or not the fucked up thing is that, you’re sick and are in need of cuddling and your man wants to watch porn at the time you really need him. Thats just weird in my opinion.
@Maisy good point I thought so too 😕
I don’t feel like it’s cheating. However if your man can’t just have a cuddle with you when your sick & watch a movie then that’s wrong ☹️❤️
My opinion is i’d feel the same an i would feel like i wasnt good enuff for my partner for him to go look elsewhere for pleasure. obviously watching porn for a bloke is a easy quick way to get turned on an have a wank over. I think its disgusting tbh. my man wouldnt like it if i was goin of on men porn and playin with myself over some other men.talk to him an tell him how hes making u feel. If he cared an loved you that much he would stop this and apologize. Il probably get some sarky nasty comments to my opinion before you bitch thats my opinion guys lol!
It’s not cheating no. He is openly telling you, and knows he is horny so sorting himself out. Some men are horrible and would say, ok just popping out and will pay for sex as a result
Lol he’s watching people that have no clue he exists and y’all call that cheating? Tell him instead of being a child just be direct and say he wants to do it. He ain’t have to throw it in your face.
I say yes! Personally for me I feel disrespected if he watches porn, I told my man multiple times don’t do it Infront of me and don’t show me u do it. And I haven’t had issues with him since I told him. But he never watched it near me he does it on his own time.