I wax 🤪 and when I get irritation, I just exfoliate, but I make my own out of coconut oil and sugar. Make sure to rinse well lol.
I hate my hair, and my partner prefers mine when I shave, and I do, too. I use the Nair Moisturizing cream hair removal or the sensitive one as I'm allergic to any product that is scented or perfumed smell. But when I'm at home, I let my private area breathe, no underwear, only when I'm on my period or going outside.
I was gonna suggest also, definitely exfoliate
Laser hair removal. Worth every penny ❤️
When i had that problem I got shaving gel specifically for that area and a product that prevents and gets rid of ingrown hairs. Also wearing loose fitting clothes after shaving can prevent ingrown hairs.