@Lena It’s her dads side but I’m not worried about them looking after her, I trust them with her as he has two older girls so they’ve had plenty practice 😂 I worry she will realise how long I’ve been gone and get upset 😫 I hate the thought of her getting upset and wanting me and me not being there xx
I have my little one sleep over her god mothers for sometimes two days and it hurts you more than them. They are chasing the dog or playing in the sink. My little girl sometimes gets a bit iffy if she hasn’t had breast milk in the day when it’s sleep time. But saying that I had my youngest sister for nine days when she was about 17 months old and she was absolutely fine asking as there was routine and things to do
I left my son for 2 weeks when he was 9 months old. It was hard because we had a 9 hour time difference for video calls. But I trust my parents 100% so I didn't feel as anxious. I would not have left him with my husband's parents. I hope they understand that your anxious and that you need constant updates about your LO.