Sorry to hear you had this experience. I'm at Royal London (not a high proportion of Jews these days). I'm 3/4 Ashkenazi and 1/4 Irish Catholic and didn't have any trouble. I don't think everyone outside of Judaism really knows/understands that there are different types of 'Jewish'...
Sorry you had friction 😦 I just put Jewish and they asked about my origins and wrote it down. I was at uclh so maybe they're used to people being from all over (or maybe I just had a thoughtful midwife!)