What would you do?

So my neighbor she's mad at me because I won't let her watch my newborn she been pissed off and I don't even know her like that I am not close with her even for 4 years I don't feel comfortable dropping off my newborn even though she's 45 years old. I let her see my baby once and hold because I felt bad..now she's avoiding me angry at me and I don't feel comfortable leaving my baby with a stranger
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My next door neighbor I understand I just gave birth but my mom is watching my daughter I don't feel comfy leaving my baby with a stranger

Girl wtf... that's weird af. She's not even family.. avoid the fuck outta her, and if she confronts you, tell her she was outta line and is giving off crazy vibes feeling entitled to your newborn.

If you don’t feel comfortable, you don’t feel comfortable 🤷🏽‍♀️ if she’s angry, let her be angry. She’s allowed to feel however she wants to feel and you’re allowed to make whatever choices you feel are best for you and your baby.

Once I was living in share house and the house owner was living with me . I gave birth and she was none stop coming in my room and asking me to let her hold my baby . Once I went in shower and when I came out she was in my room holding my baby . We find a flat and I told her that we will be moving out she was so sad and beg me to sty . So we start packing . I and my partner that time started to get things to the car and she locked the door and I was knocking on the door and couldn’t get in . My partner have to kick the door off and I have to call police . She tried to take my baby . Before that she none stop talked how she wants a baby but can’t get pregnant.

@Reina 😱 that's absolutely terrifying

@Jessica oh the things went through my head that moment i don’t even want to say it . But i wasn’t nice to her let’s put this way . Very traumatic event.

@Reina honestly reading this post, I was thinking "she sounds like a baby snatcher" Girl, I would have been SWINGING, or at least imagining it. Ugh I'm so sorry you had to go through that!

@Jessica I felt like I was in the movie , because i couldn’t believe it this happened to me and my baby in real life. I dealt with her and I told police I did put my hands on her , because she did deserve it.

That's some issue within her. Why would she be angry that you are caring for your own baby? Xx

@Reina omg that is horrifying!! I'm glad you got out of there when you did. Can't trust nobody these days!

@Jessica I was thinking the same exact thing! Baby snatcher vibes for sure!! 😬

Send her a cake food fix many things, and just because she is your neighbour you might actually need her although she acting this way is very suspicious be careful and kind this will go along way Its hard, i don't know your background but for us god is the one who reward us for that thats why we tolerate being patient specially with neighbours I hope this resolves itself on it's own and she comes to her senses 😍😍

This is a red flag. Do not worry at all about her feelings, just tell her no with a smile and ignore her feelings and move on. I would never trust her even when your kid is older

I feel like that’s super weird?? Why tf would she feel entitled to watch your baby if you guys aren’t even close? Also her feelings aren’t your responsibility it’s your responsibility to keep your babe safe and she’s giving off I’m going to watch this baby and pretend that it’s mine vibes lol

I would just tell her straight she doesn't have nothing to do with you or your newborn and to leave you alone.

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This is mental

Let her be mad. You're not responsible for her feelings. I would be cautious as heck around someone like that.

That’s fukin crazy HELL NO you ain’t coming near my baby

@Reina omggggg! I can’t even bring myself to like the comment because there’s nothing likeable about it! What a freaking nut!

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