Feeling bad

I’m feeling really bad same as I did in the moment cuz yesterday my baby was crying sooooo much and was super clingy due to teething and tiredness I was getting frustrated and when he stopped crying for a moment a said RELAX and he started pouting and crying and I felt immediately bad ☹️☹️ and a few days ago he bit my nipple and I flicked his cheek I love him so much and feel horrible. I want to be a good mom and don’t want to cause him any trauma he’s perfect even on bad days.
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I could’ve written this myself 🙁 yesterday early morning was such a rough day. Especially at 2-3 in the morning when you’re still feeling tired and you have to settle baby down on your own😭 My husband had to step in and wakes up at 430 am for work. I felt like the worst human being for saying relax to my baby. I have no advice but just that we all have our days and this is the HARDEST job on earth. It’s like frustration at the situation and not the baby. We just gotta get up and do better the next day. Someone on here said there’s always the next day to start over ❤️ We will get through this stage.

@ashley Thanks this does make me feel a bit better it just hurts to look back at how his face changed, he always looks at me with such love and happiness but that day he started turning to a frown and crying. I apologized immediately but it’s been weighing on me. I will give him so much love today and moving forward. Its just hard because his dad works long hours and its me & my baby alone the whole time so I have nobody to trade off with until he comes home & by then all my baby needs is a feed and sleep

I get it 😭 the mom guilt is insane I never knew how bad one would feel til having a baby. You have no time or not much at all to decompress.

@ashley when he was like 2-3 months I used to give him to his dad to go to the washroom and walk at snail speed to go back to the bedroom ugh I had no time to myself even a shower was rushed my his dad 😭😭😭

Don’t feel bad. It happens. It’s a lot to feel like that. Like you said, it’s you & baby all day. Best to take a moment when you can and calm before getting back to your baby. How many months is he?

@Lorraine 5 now

Ah I see. It is hard that time. Be easy on yourself. You’re doing good already. 🙂💕

@Lorraine thank you so much ☺️

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